Christmas Traditions + Resources

Hi everyone!

I wanted to share a few new traditions we are adding in to our Christmas this year! Keeping Christ at the center of our Christmas is essential, so we have been thoughtfully discussing how best to do this with our children as they get older, especially with Collins this year. We decided that we will not be pretending Santa is real. For many reasons, but mostly because we don’t see the necessity of it in order to experience the true joy of Christmas, which is found only in Christ and the true meaning of the season. Although we both grew up doing Santa and enjoying it, we both feel that the works-based, “Santa’s watching… therefore, be good” is confusing to the same child whom we are trying to teach the importance of grace to. Teaching grace on its own is difficult, even to an adult, so to add in something that is quite opposing to what grace is around the Christmas season, doesn’t seem helpful to us as parents or to the children God’s entrusted to us.

Now, does that mean that because you celebrate Santa you’re not a Christian? Certainly, not! I think there are a lot of Christians who do the Santa thing and keep Jesus at the center of Christmas, but for us, God has convicted us in such a way to not do Santa. God convicts people in different ways on third-level topics… like homeschooling, or dressing certain types of clothing… Santa, Easter Bunny… those types of topics. Now, if we were discussing whether or not you believed that Jesus died on a cross to save you from your sins, whether you place scripture as God’s word and your authority, or the trinity… then there’s no wiggle room for discussion there. You either are or you aren’t when it comes to first-level items such as these, but Santa… now that’s different. So please, know that whether you celebrate the season with Santa or not… I’m not saying you are or are not a Christian!

This is just the plan that seems to make most sense to us. Now, does that mean we won’t watch the fun movies like The Polar Express or Elf? No. Does it mean we won’t read stories or sing fun songs that reference Santa? No! It means that, as we have fun pretending we’ll refer back to the real meaning of Christmas. As they get older and are able to understand more, we can discuss the history of the real St. Nicholas that the world’s Santa today is based off of. Like if someone were to dress up today as a shepherd or one of the wise men… Santa’s today do the same. Will they still like to pretend he is? Maybe. Will that be okay? Maybe…just kidding 🙂 they are children! Having fun pretending is okay. Again, keeping Christ at the center of the season is our focus, so we plan to make less of a big deal about Santa and make the biggest deal out of celebrating the birth of our savior, Jesus! God is sovereign, and I trust that He can work in and through our children’s hearts far greater than any “plan” or “traditions” we set around Christmas, therefore, we plan, but we don’t cling to the salvation of our children’s souls to that plan. THE plan is already sorted out by God for them!

SO- here’s how. At least for this year! We have some things we’re keeping from last year and adding in some new ways to celebrate this year! For us as husband and wife to prepare our hearts with one another, and for our children. I like mixing it up a bit, and I think giving yourself grace to change up traditions to keep it exciting and also working for your family is important to do and recognize. If it isn’t working, change it. If it is, keep it! Simple as that. So, here we go!

f o r  u s . . .

Come Let Us Adore Him Daily Devotional

By: Paul David Tripp

We did this devotional last year, and really enjoyed it, so we are doing this again and started it yesterday morning. Short (2-3 page) devotional, and at the end it has a for children and parents activity/question to draw out the meaning of the text/devotional for the child and make it relatable to them! Dakota and I are doing this primarily for and with one another, though! Each devotional walks through the story of Jesus’ birth, but relates back to the big picture of the gospel, and I really love that about this devotional.

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The Dawning of Indestructible Joy Daily Devotional

By: John Piper

This is a daily reading by one of our favorite authors, John Piper. We have not read this during advent yet, but ordered it on Amazon prime, so we will either jump into it this year (totally still worth doing this year if you haven’t got a plan/advent reading yet!), or we will wait until next year and just stick with the Come Let Us Adore Him devotional! The main focus of these devotionals though, is that God would use the meditations to deepen and sweeten your adoration of Jesus and help you keep him at the center of your Christmas season. Sounds like a great thing to pick up at any point during the advent season, and every season. 🙂

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f o r  t h e m . . .

A Life-sized Manger

Similar to having a tree set up somewhere in your home, Dakota thought of the idea to have a large manger set up somewhere in the house, and I loved that idea. When you click the link, you’ll see it is a “livestock feeder” and is used for a plethora of other things… 🙂 BUT- one of the examples is to be used as a manger for Christmas. We loved how realistic it looks, plus it is natural, so if you wanted to stain or paint it later on, you could to make it your own style!

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The Giving Manger

By: Allison Hottinger & Emily King

This is our first year doing this, and so far we’ve enjoyed it very much! The main idea behind this is to focus on the giving aspect of the season, while serving others. As you serve others throughout the season, you fill and prepare the wooden manger with a piece of straw. On Christmas Day, baby Jesus goes into the manger, filled with the straw that your family has filled by giving and serving one another and points us to the greatest gift we receive on Christmas, the savior of the world! You can still get the whole set and do it with your family this advent season, too! One thing Dakota and I talked about is that with this, it will be important to not have it become just another works-based tally to “be good to receive gifts”, but rather to thoughtfully think about ways we can serve one another that are relatable to Collins and Tommy right now and as they grow. Hottinger + King suggest as a family making a list of thoughtful ways that you could serve during the Christmas season, and I think that will be a great way to combat the urge to just “do it to fill the manger” mentality children can very easily make something like this to be! It’s been fun to see how engaged she is with it, and when I moved the manger + baby Jesus when we first received it, she immediately asked when she got downstairs from her nap where they were… I haven’t moved them since ;).

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The Wonder of the Greatest Gift: An Interactive Family Celebration of Advent

By: Ann Voskamp

This is also new that we are adding into our Christmas advent season this year! I saw this on Amazon and immediately was drawn to the pop-ups in the daily stories to share with your child during advent, and how interactive it is. I’m so excited to receive this and start doing it with Collins & Thomas!

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s u p p l e m e n t a l   r e a d i n g . . .

Hidden Christmas

By: Timothy Keller

We read through this last year, and excited to revisit it again! I enjoy how Timothy Keller takes the story of the nativity that even non-Christians seem to “know” and gets to the tough questions and hard edges of this familiar story.

“Even people who are not practicing Christians think they are familiar with the story of the nativity. Every Christmas displays of Baby Jesus resting in a manger decorate lawns and churchyards, and songs about shepherds and angels fill the air. Yet despite the abundance of these Christian references in popular culture, how many of us have examined the hard edges of this biblical story?

In his new book Timothy Keller takes readers on an illuminating journey into the surprising background of the nativity. By understanding the message of hope and salvation within the Bible’s account of Jesus’ birth, readers will experience the redeeming power of God’s grace in a deeper and more meaningful way.” -Amazon Book Description Summary

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My Merry Christmas

By: Sally Lloyd-Jones

This is one of C’s favorites! We have been reading that routinely since this past summer… 🙂 It’s a great story to read that brings in scripture to the Christmas story in a beautifully illustrated story to connect modern celebrations of Christmas today like decorating a tree and presents under a tree with the true meaning of Christmas and how the modern traditions can point to the greater gifts within the Christmas season.

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Song of the Stars: A Christmas Story

By: Sally Lloyd-Jones

Another great illustration of the Christmas story! I love how descriptive this book is and how she ties in all of the animals that are rejoicing and traveling to go and see the good news of the savior’s arrival!

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The Christmas Promise

By: Alison Mitchell

This is a new book we are waiting to receive that we ordered on Amazon! It is on back order, so I hope it comes at some point before Christmas, haha! I wanted to get one new supplemental story for the kids this year as their “something to read” gift from us, and this is one of them that they’ll get to enjoy before Christmas day if it comes early enough! Otherwise, we will enjoy it on Christmas Day with them as we celebrate!

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ESV Men’s and Women’s Devotional Bibles

I have shared this ESV devotional bible before, but we are both reading our men’s and women’s devotional bibles together through the book of Matthew right now, too. We’ve put a break on this slightly due to traveling and hunting (not great excuses!), so we’ve started to get back on track and into a better routine of reading together in some way a few times a week together. We try to do it at least 2-3 times. Our advent devotional by Paul David Tripp has already helped get us back into a routine! Here is the men’s version of the ESV devotional bible that Dakota uses.

We’ve watched a movie together also called, The Star. It is such a sweet movie! They also have the book version. Collins loved the movie, and we did too!  I would definitely recommend it. A cute story line from the donkey’s perspective that still stays on track with the Christmas story. Our church will be watching it for the children at some point leading up to Christmas as well. You can find it on Netflix!

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I hope these resources encourage you and help equip you and your family in new ways as you prepare for Christmas!

with love,

from courtney

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